Friday, February 27, 2009 @ 10:40 AM

Are you OK?
We often ask each other this question.
and we're often concerned bout the well-being of our family & friends.
sometimes i do wonder.

well this is what happens, working makes my mind stagnant,
as i have to focus on what i do, and my mind cant be allowed to explore,
the other side of what ifs, and other things.
i see things more than in one perspective,
that is why, i find myself in the wrg place.

okie, back to the first part,
tt question got me into deep shit, quite a couple of times,
while there were those, whom really needed to be asked such qns..
made me wonder,
what about this qns tt can trigger off such a response..
true enough, when u're truly okay,
this qns, is just redundant, n pisses you off..
but at the same time, if u're not doing okay,
den this qns becomes a starting pt for one,
to perhaps start confiding in the other..
so when is really the appropriate time to ask?
from my personal experience,
dont bother asking. im serious.
naturally, if you come off as a person
whereby the other seeks comfort,
and has faith in,
they will tell of it in time to come.
cos im not going anywhere else. i'm always here.

but sometimes, you get bothered bout it,
knowing tt sth cud be wrong, and you just felt like u cud do sth,
just let them know tt u're truly concerned and be there for them.
sometimes, all u need is just some reassurance tt u do have someone.

"being a friend is not bout what should have been done,
but its about what you do."

wells, this entry is a self-reflection on my part.
since my brain is pretty clogged up and tired nwadays.
till then, loves.